Some trannies are obviously engaged in this type of activity to attract more money to themselves and to have anal sex. One of journalists who found out that her ex-husband was a transvestite described it “pervert” and threw out a heap of the old clothes because the husband transvestite carried her. What does this level of anger among such women inspire? Fear, I believe. But fear of what? Fear of the competition in a linen box? Fear what it can be the gay? Fear what it will be for all as well as all transvestites of Moscow and will ruin her tights? Fear what neighbors learn? Disguise in clothes of other floor, is not a wonder. Usually women in everyday life of a lot of things men’s carry. And it is one of the most harmless actions. But here when male transvestites wear a women’s clothing or lingerie, inconceivable imaginations come here. And it, nevertheless also is one of the most socially misunderstood phenomena.
Many people put on – as priests, soldiers or the police officer (militia) – and a transvestism just cheerful variation on disguise.
But our society is created in such a way that the fact that we prefer to carry in very big degree define the one someone we are such and that others think of us.
Judges wear a dress and sometimes wigs (in the West). Priests carry the Cassock (dress). Bishops in general wear special thin dressing gowns. Kings wore clothes and crowns. In Hotel the porters, wear clothes of service staff. And many others wear the certain special clothes. Employees of parking, railway personnel, the stewardess of airline and people with thousands of other various professions and work wear clothes which will help to establish their personality.
As our society becomes more and more irregular shape, so there are more and more important also clothes. We define people whether they have “white collars” or “a dirty collar” of the worker from building.
The boy transvestite throws down a huge challenge in thinly balanced part of the social mechanism. It, perhaps, is not surprising that disguise of transvestites makes so much confusion, bewilderment, indignation and there are a lot of dirty words, in the address.
Despite popularity transvestites are almost not known. This so-called “hobby” is not known, well change clothes, well it is sometimes beautiful. And all – more information except bright photos is also not present. But here the fact that many men change clothes in lingerie it is not refutable. By the way, many women too transvestites, but such transvestism among women is socially acceptable. Millions of women regularly wear trousers and suits and are to someone surprising. The idea of men to put on clothes which are usually worn by women can sound as a joke. But it not so. For one thousand men it is the best way of fight against a stress and disposal of a duty, to be an ordinary person. Wearing a women’s clothing brings incredible excitement for some men. It is difficult to receive exact figures, but my researches show that on average for a week of 100.000 of 1,000,000 men, drag female things unknown to all. For some this soft and fluffy, and for someone this silky or with frills. Often prostitute transvestites, just wear brassieres and panties under their men’s wear. And when it is necessary to fuck with the client, dress women’s and receive a high and money.
Most of transvestites live in dread of exposure. About a quarter of male transvestites will never dare to share the secret with their wives. It means that around the world millions of women are married to transvestites – and do not know about it. In each one million women there will be about 25000 which unconsciously married (or living c) transvestites. Here for example, transvestites of New York is a solution of all social and professional barriers. Your best friend, your partner in golf, your doctor, your boss or your husband, can be the secret transvestite. Chances are high that someone you well know is a transvestite.
There are some facts which we found during inspection from 1014 questionnaires of transvestites: In total at random, there is a lot of boys, diagnoses f64 (psychiatrists so write) in the heads, it is even more.
*** More than three quarters of all transvestites regularly wear a women’s underwear under men’s wear. Many of the others would make it if they were not afraid of exposure by wives or friends.
*** Less than a half of all transvestites, leave the houses are completely dressed as women.
And most of them, rather honest to recognize that they not mentally ill people. But it is not important for most of people. They want to put on in clothes which are worn by women, but they do not want as transsexuals becomes women.
*** Transsexualism has to be one of the most harmless hobbies. And nevertheless, nearly three quarters of men of transvestites recognize that they live in dread to be exposed, by prejudiced opinion on this subject at relatives, neighbors or employers.
*** Some wives contemptuously and scornfully treat a trans-subject. Others patronizing, but refuse to try to understand this subject. And God forbid your photos will get to galleries of transvestites – same there will be such shame. Again and again you read pathetic letters from transvestites whose wives “allow” them to wear, a dress for one hour a week. It is natural until they do it in secret and the wife did not guess. Therefore, the first transvestite who decided to admit to the wife or friends about the hobby gets to a concrete ignore at all. Therefore, are afraid also not to someone do not speak.
*** Three quarters of all partners of transvestites “know that they their partner in the life just change clothes in a women’s clothing”. And so, what relation to the subject “transsexuals” in principle do not have. But here a big half of partners, does not know about it. There is a good reason for such secret as most of wives or girlfriends who know about a change and do not approve their partner. Just such women miss very cheerful wave, being it selfish, narrow-minded and not to have adherents and to speak disapprovingly about hobbies of other person. Even if they are such strange.
*** Fortunately, a little more than a third of wives and girlfriends actively help the men to put on as women, helping with make-up and clothes. Many women admit that receiving it the travesty show and then to receive sex. It is pleasant to women to see the male partners in a silky, women’s clothing. The clothes are a fetish a subject, for transvestites whose partners place emphasis on sex. Many women receive an orgasm, at that time when men are dressed as the woman.
*** The vast majority of transvestites of free flight are heterosexuals. And here trans-prostitute or prostitute transvestites, on the contrary are gays in the majority. Therefore, for money fuck with men. Therefore, quite often transvestites whores are most attractive in the plan Goma of sex. Or for change of roles in BDSM to a subject.
*** On average transvestites spend for 12 hours a week, putting on as the woman. But probably, would like to spend 70 hours a week, and a big half in general constantly would hang out in women’s clothes. Also, it would be given for rubles and currency in the demountable apartment.
*** A large number of men find out that putting on stockings and women’s dresses, it is the fastest way to leave a stressful state after work. I do not doubt that most of people would live longer if the transvestism gains more wide recognition.
I do not consider that the transvestism is one of the least harmful all habits at men. And it is natural, any person not has to feel it is a shame in such situations, precisely. It, I consider, quite acceptable way for any person to leave from daily stresses in our stressful world. It is a subject it is interesting and, undoubtedly, gives many opportunities to men to whom it gives great pleasure. Men who put on in female things reveal a normal, healthy part of the femininity. Expand their outlook on life and gives them will enjoy and to receive a temporary respite from duties and requirements to a male.
I always, sadly read lines about the number of women at a forum or in LiveJournal which do not accept the husbands-trannies. From time to time I receive letters from men whose wives treated them awfully badly. I think – it is sad that the transvestism is considered as something terrible. I consider that it is simply deeply taken roots and completely false prejudices. Many women probably assume that most of transvestites either homosexual, or candidates for gender surgeries. That is think that they are transsexuals, but it not so – trances is absolutely other subject. It is already necessary to know in our times a difference and not to be such gray in sexual whims. But in general, there is a huge difference between transvestites and transsexuals. Transsexuals are, golfers – they lose the spheres. Transvestites seek to keep them.